Tuesday, April 21, 2009

A Very Private Matter

A couple of weeks ago,I had to consult a doctor for a minor problem. At the city centre of a well-known hospital chain,where I had the appointment, I was asked to fill in a registration form. Sitting down to fill it,I was shocked to find that I had to fill in not just my name, age, address but also my religion.

Religion???? Why on earth would a hospital want to know my religion? If they really wanted to find out which community I belonged to, my name would be a dead give-away. If they had just reproduced an official form, then it shows a total lack of sensitivity.

I firmly believe that my religion, or my faith, is a very private matter between me and my Maker, and I don't think anyone else has any say in the matter. There is too much religion in the public sphere causing too much trouble. I do not think even schools should be asking us to supply such information, so where is the question of a hospital doing the same? Why should they know what is my religion or community? Will a doctor refuse to treat me based on my religious beliefs?I find it ridiculous.

Needless to say, I did not fill in that particular column.

8 comments:

Mom Gone Mad said...

I know some fellow bloggers who have faced this during school admissions and calmly written INDIAN in the column. Especially in the case of mixed marriages.

I agree with you that its absolutely ridiculous that its given such importance. What is it to anyone?

Multicommunitarianism has done India no favours.

Cynic in Wonderland said...

..and amen to that!

Meena said...

@Shalini:Exactly! What is it to anyone? I could have written "Indian" as you said, but I guess I was too angry with the whole thing...

@Cynic:Sorry for the rant, had to get it off my mind!

Padmaja said...

What to do, Meena? We live in a secular country on paper, but not in practice!

Meena said...

Very true, Padmaja!

Vishwa said...

When my wife was told to mention her religion, she wrote 'Spirituality', in a hospital form. Of course, nobody bothered--maybe it's just a formality and no one follows it up. But the senselessness is truly amazing.
When we were enquiring for my son's playhome admission, the lady asked, 'caste?'. I asked her why she should be bothered about my son's caste and she replied that it's a formality. It's difficult to escape these stupid notions in today's world.

Meena said...

Stupid notions - you said it, Vishwa! When it does not really matter and nobody is reading what you have filled up, then why have it there in the first place?

HariPuttar said...

Hi Meena

I suspect that these forms were designed by the British Raj and tradition obsessed institutions in India continue to use them.

I agree there is absolutely no place for religion and caste in most anything in a secular and progressive society. However, those are the exact two things that people in power use to weaken their opposition so that they continue to hold onto to the power